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Here’s the thing: divorces aren’t always straightforward.


Let’s get straight to the point: Divorce can be a minefield. You may have started out thinking that it was simple enough. Maybe you’ve even thought, “I’ll do it myself, how hard can it be?” But once emotions flare and assets are at stake, you'll find you need a specialist.

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Divorce Barrister -Arlene Small

If you're in the middle of a messy split, particularly with children or finances involved, a barrister isn't a luxury—it’s essential. Whether you're the one initiating the divorce or responding to it, things can get tricky very quickly. And that’s where I come in. I'm here to make sure that your rights and interests are protected—plain and simple

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  • Avoid unnecessary stress: Let me handle the legal complexities, so you can focus on moving forward.

Before you get a divorce...


Divorce is a big decision, and it’s important to take a moment before diving in. Have you considered the long-term impact on your finances, children, and overall well-being? Getting the right advice early can make all the difference. Whether you're just starting to think about divorce or ready to take action, I’m here to guide you through the process—making sure you’re protected every step of the way. Let’s talk before you make any final decisions. Together, we’ll make sure you’re ready for whatever comes next.

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The Downsides of DIY Divorce


Here’s the real kicker: doing it yourself often leads to mistakes that cost you far more than hiring a professional would have. For example, the

Ministry of Justice found that incomplete or incorrect forms were one of the biggest issues for those going the DIY route, causing significant delay. Then, there's the emotional toll. You might be tempted to go it alone to save a bit of money, but the long-term costs—emotionally and financially—can be far higher.


Hidden Assets in Divorce

Divorce can sometimes bring out the worst in people.

It's not uncommon for one spouse to attempt hiding income or property, hoping to get away with a larger share.

This can leave you at a severe disadvantage if you're not prepared.

A barrister knows how to uncover hidden assets and ensure full financial disclosure. With expert legal backing, we make sure that no stone is left unturned, so you receive what you’re entitled to.

Don't risk being short-changed by letting assets slip through the cracks.

Unfair Divorce Settlements


At first glance, an offer might seem fair—especially when you're emotionally drained and just want it over with.

But divorce settlements can be tricky, and without legal expertise, you might unknowingly agree to less than you deserve.

A barrister ensures that your settlement is truly fair, factoring in everything from pensions to property.

We advocate for you, making sure you’re not pressured into an agreement that leaves you financially vulnerable in the long term.


Child Custody Complications

Custody disputes can be some of the most emotionally challenging aspects of a divorce.

The stakes are high, and the outcome can shape your child's future.

Without proper representation, you risk being at a disadvantage when negotiating custody arrangements.

A barrister helps navigate these emotionally charged situations, ensuring that your rights as a parent are fully represented and that your child’s best interests are front and centre.

We’ll help make sure you don’t lose what matters most.

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Get what's fair

You’ve only got one shot at getting your divorce right. The decisions made now will affect your finances, your living arrangements, and—most importantly—your children for years to come.

A barrister can make sure these decisions aren’t left to chance. While DIY divorces might seem cheaper on the surface, you need to consider the long-term risks.

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What People Say

Francesca Ononye Solicitor

“Arlene Small is extremely knowledgeable in anything family law and practice. What I found more compelling though was her ability to put my clients at ease even in very difficult and complex situations.”

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“Arlene is absolutely fabulous. Her work, her commitment to others and above all her passion to do what’s right, just makes the person she is. Arlene is a real credit to her profession.”

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“I have used Arlene Small for a few years now to assist with multiple family court hearings. I have nothing but the up most respect and gratitude for this amazing woman! She is so on the ball, her ability to retain information, think on her feet and her attention to detail is outstanding

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Why choose me? I understand that you’re not just dealing with paperwork—you’re dealing with one of the most difficult times in your life. I’m here to fight your corner, to make sure your voice is heard, and to secure the best possible outcome for you. Whether it's a messy financial dispute, or ensuring your children’s best interests are looked after, I’ll guide you through every step of the process.

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FAQS About Divorce & Barristers

Do I need a barrister for my divorce?

If your divorce involves complicated finances, child custody, or if your spouse is being uncooperative, a barrister can be a lifesaver. A barrister provides expert legal advice and representation, ensuring you don’t miss out on what's rightfully yours. They take the pressure off you and handle the complexities so you can focus on moving forward. Without a barrister, you risk agreeing to an unfair settlement or missing key legal details that could affect your future.

How long does the divorce process take?

The timeline for divorce depends on how complicated your situation is. A straightforward divorce, where both parties agree, can take around 6 to 12 months. However, if disputes over assets or custody arise, it can stretch longer. Having a barrister helps streamline the process, ensuring your case is handled efficiently without unnecessary delays. We work to move things along so you can start your new chapter as soon as possible.

What if my ex tries to hide assets?

It’s sadly common for people to try to hide assets during divorce proceedings. Whether it's income, property, or investments, concealing assets is not just unfair, it’s illegal.

A barrister knows where to look and how to ensure full financial disclosure. By employing expert tactics, we can uncover hidden assets and ensure you receive your fair share of the marital estate.

Don't let your ex leave you with less than you deserve.

Can we handle child arrangements ourselves?

While some parents can work out custody arrangements amicably, others find it challenging to agree on what’s best for their children. If you can’t agree on custody, a barrister can represent your interests and ensure your child’s needs come first.

Child custody disputes are emotionally charged, and going it alone can lead to an outcome that doesn’t reflect your rights as a parent.

A barrister ensures a balanced and fair arrangement that works for everyone involved.

How are finances divided in a divorce?

Finances are typically divided based on what’s fair for both parties, but this doesn’t mean a 50/50 split. The court will consider factors like income, property, pensions, and even future earning potential.

A barrister ensures that all financial elements are accounted for and that your future is protected.

Without legal help, you might overlook key factors, leaving you worse off in the long run.

We make sure you walk away with a settlement that reflects your contributions and needs.

Can I Hire You Directly?

Absolutely! You can hire me directly as your barrister, whether you’re in the middle of a complicated divorce or just considering your options. I work closely with clients to ensure they receive the best possible outcome, and you won’t need to go through a solicitor to engage my services.

However, if you already have a solicitor handling your case, I can work alongside them to provide specialist advice and representation in court.

Together, we’ll make sure no detail is overlooked, and that your interests are fully protected.If you’re ready to move forward or just want to explore how I can help, get in touch.

Whether it’s a quick call or a detailed discussion about your situation, we’ll work out the best approach for you.

Your future is too important to leave to chance—let’s get it right from the start.

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